that’s actually the opposite of what the problem is
What if Tangled, Wreck It Ralph and Frozen were classically animated.
like, if you take some passively lovesick dude who thinks he’s owed something by the object of his affections, and add MORE CONFIDENCE AND MASCULINITY, you don’t end up with a normal well-adjusted dude. you get someone who’s going to be more aggressive and dangerous about his obsessions. you turn a passive creep into an active creep. you get PUA culture.
the obsessiveness and sense of entitlement are the problems, not the meekness with which they’re expressed.